Black and White
In life, a lesson learned in your past that
you will never forget completely.
When I was in elementary school,
I got into a major argument
with a boy in my class.
I have forgotten what the argument
was about,but I have never forgotten
the lesson learned that day.
I was convinced that “I” was right
and “he” was wrong -
and he was just as convinced that
“I” was wrong and “he” was right.
The teacher decided to teach us
a very important lesson.
She brought us up to the front of the class
and placed him on one side of her desk
and me on the other.
In the middle of her desk was a large,
round object.
I could clearly see that it was black.
She asked the boy what color the object was.
“White,” he answered.
I couldn’t believe he said the object was white,
when it was obviously black!
Another argument started between my classmate
and me, this time about the color of the object.
The teacher told me to go stand where
the boy was standing and told him
to come stand where I had been.
We changed places,
and now she asked me what
the color of the object was.
I had to answer, “White.”
It was an object with two differently colored sides,
and from his viewpoint it was white.
Only from my side was it black.
My teacher taught me a very important lesson
learned that day:
You must stand in the other person’s shoes
and look at the situation through their eyes
in order to truly understand their perspective .
